When a man should hold back!

Well after my first take on this matter a couple of people  requested a woman’s perspective on when a man should hold back this task  i took on gladly so guys here is the ugly truth!

Women love the chase so if you fancy a girl i suggest you go all out and show her that she is the only girl you have eyes for.  At times just like guys do, women weigh out their option’s (yes we do play the field too) so guys it’s usually a trial run in the beginning,  she may just be trying you out if she gives you a chance. Also know women love to love and they love with their whole hearts so she will need to know if you’re worth her love and if you intentions are true (this applies for some women tho).

Guys you know a girl is all yours when she devotes her time to you when her friends and lifestyle voluntarily get put on hold for you. When you call and she is there in an instant then that’s your girl, and well most women look to be lead and so she is most likely waiting on you to tell her that you are in a relationship (although some women do take the lead if the man seems to be indecisive, which is not a good quality to have).

Now the daunting signs that mean she is just not feeling you, firstly I’d say check her body language is she happy to see you or is it (oh you again atto) if yes run for that door. Women love affection so just because she likes to chat with you it don’t mean much, women hate to feel lonely so you may work as a chat buddy but don’t look too far into things we are big on friendships but not that big on relationships (tough luck gents). This is rough but very true, Guys just because we smile and we polite to you we ain’t tryna get married or be in a relationship with you, see friendship as just that friendship.

If a lady doesn’t have time for you or at times ignores you and gives off this hot and cold vibe, then I suggest you run she isn’t so sure that she wants you. If she changes suddenly, i.e. stops having time for you or is suddenly too busy for you, then she has met someone else. If you don’t know where she stays or have never been there she just might be homeless or hiding a husband,  So gents don’t go falling all over yourselves in love. Be smart……………….